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04th Feb 2019

We should ask kids’ permission before we tickle them, says Russell Brand

'It is an attempt to subvert the child’s bodily autonomy.'

Anna O'Rourke

Russell Brand has divided opinion by saying he thinks parents should ask their children before tickling them.

The father-of-two claimed that to tickle a child without their consent is an invasion of their right to personal space.

“It is an attempt to subvert the child’s bodily autonomy, to take away their right to their own space and peace,” he told The Daily Star.

“Would you do it to an adult? Would you insert your rigid fingers into their belly or their armpits? Of course not.”

The comedian, who’s dad to two-year-old Mabel and six-month-old Peggy, also said that he felt “ashamed” at having tickled his friend David Baddiel’s son Ezra in the past.

We should ask kids' permission to tickle them, says Russell Brand

“To recall doing this to Ez fills me with dreadful shame and makes me want to punch myself in the face.

“Which is what I will do to anyone who tickles either of my daughters until they are old enough to decide for themselves whether they want to be tickled or not, which by my reckoning is at 35.”

Russell’s opinion has provoked a strong reaction online.

Some people agreed, saying that forcing children to accept tickling can make them deeply uncomfortable.

Others accused him of being too sensitive on the issue.

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